My Dumb Supper Table…..

Merry Meet my friends and Blessed Samhain!  I hope that all of you had a wonderful Sabbat, I know I did.  From the beautiful weather, to seeing my grandkids in their adorable costumes, to a beautiful ritual at my altar last night.  My daughter Kate and her hubby Matt,  had my hubby Jim,  brother Chris, daughter Sara and I over for a chili dinner.  Chili and cornbread muffins were enjoyed and I took a yummy Peanut Butter Cake.   The weather was really perfect…cool and but not too cold and clear skies with a gorgeous crescent Moon!  Just a magickal evening in every way.

When I got home, I spent time at my altar, doing the ritual I wrote in my last post.  I also scryed for a while with wonderful results and then drew a 3 card tarot layout.  I learned alot from the cards and they were very meaningful to what is going on in my life right now.  Then I went out and spent some time with the Moon and went to bed very happy and contented. 

Tonight, I had my Dumb Supper and though the only participants were my daughter and I (could not get the guys to join in LOL) …we enjoyed the quiet and the candlelight and felt that we had company indeed.  I kept my table a simple black and white theme and I was sooo pleased with how it came out.


Ok..I’ll talk a little about what I did…I set my whole table..though Sara and I were the only ones who sat at the table..that left 4 seats for anyone who wanted to come join us 🙂  (Ok I really thought my hubby and brother would join us…but they were wrapped up in a show LOL) !  I  brought in lots of candles and white pumpkins and  crystal glassware and a touch of silver.  The silver julep cups hold fresh cut rosemary from my own garden (still hanging in there despite several frosty mornings! )  It smelled wonderful!  Keep in mind that rosemary represents remembrance….perfect for my ancestors.  The rosemary will dry great in those cups too, then I’ll put the stalks in my a remembrance for myself. 

My table dark and candlelit!

There was wine for everyone and I put out my peanut butter cake for dessert.  Now this peanut butter cake is a huge hit with my family and friends who have had it and it was requested for Samhain of course, I made it.  Thought you all might like the recipe??  so here it is:

Autumn’s Peanut Butter Cake

*Be sure and read all the way thru it…the ingredients are spread thruout the recipe 

 Mix in a large bowl:

2 cups sugar

2 cups flour

1 tsp baking powder

1/2 tsp salt

Set aside.   In a med saucepan, bring to a boil:

1 cup water

1 cup peanut butter

1 stick butter

Stir often..when it comes to a boil remove from heat and add to the dry mixture and mix well with a spoon. 

Then stir in:

2 eggs

1/2 cup milk

1 tsp vanilla

Blend well.  Pour into a greased jelly roll pan.  Bake at 375* for 20 mins or until golden brown.

While cake is baking:

Bring to a boil in the same saucepan:

1 stick butter

1/3 cup milk

Remove from heat and stir in:

1/2 cup peanut butter

1 lb. confectioners sugar 

*Hint–add the peanut butter first, when melted well, stir in the sugar 1/2 at a time, to keep frosting from getting lumpy!

Pour over warm cake and spread evenly. 

This cake is sort of like the Texas Chocolate cake..dense and almost like a brownie ..and YUMMY!

If you’ve never done a Dumb Supper before..put it on your “Must Do” list for next is really a very special thing and most magickal.  Remember as I posted before, you want a  dark room, lots of candles and NO talking! Now I’ve heard several say that with kids the silence would be impossible..of course!  But have it anyway..your ancestors will love spending time with the kids too!  Listen and Feel for them to come to you..give them the respect they deserve.  When we felt it was time, we said out-loud our messages for our loved ones who had passed on ..for those we knew and loved and miss to this day.   

“In all of us there is a hunger, marrow deep, to know our heritage – to know who we are

 and where we came from. Without this enriching knowledge, there is a hollow yearning. 

 No matter what our attainments in life, ther is still a vacuum,

                                an emptiness, and the most disquieting loneliness.”                           

 By Alex Haley

I believe there is an inherent wisdom and knowledge within that is passed down to us in our DNA.  That we literally  carry a bit of what they did and what they knew deep in our psyche. We are connected by the threads of love, life, time and the Universe.  So, for me, this meaningful ritual is very important!

So I say again, Blessed Samhain to you all! 

Blessings and Love, Autumn

Sources: me! 🙂 



Filed under Family, My Writing, Quote, Ritual, Samhain

10 responses to “My Dumb Supper Table…..

  1. I loved seeing your post to know others celebrate this well. Check out my post from today, 365 Days Until Samhain, for pics of my dumb supper and Rosemary came in to play in my celebration as well. Blessings to you and yours for the New Year!

    • Hi Cordelia..thank you and thanks for commenting. I did go and read your post and left a comment as well. Your pictures are wonderful, your thoughts on the Dumb Supper rang with me and yes! Rosemary 🙂
      Blessings, Autumn

  2. chefette13

    Oh Autumn!! your table is beautiful! Thank you for the PB cake recipe…sounds like something right up my son’s alley. Last night I hosted an open house of sorts for friends and neighbors with all kinds of home made desserts. (apple crumb pie, pear and blueberry tart, peach and cherry strudel and cupcakes and cookies of course.) The table was all candle lit with pumpkins and gargoyles as decorations. A great time was had by all. After everyone left I held my Samhain ritual…quiet. peaceful reflective…I have to confess this was my first Samhain…i’ve been practicing for nearly 30 years but never had anyone label what I believed and what I did until this past year. So I’m discovering a lot of new knowledge and trying to catch up on Sabbats. I have to say it’s wonderful finally fitting in and knowing who I am ,that I’m not alone in my beliefs and that I’m not the nut that everyone said I was…ok so maybe I am a nut 😉 but not as far as spirituality goes. I really enjoy your blogs and through them I’ve learned a lot. Thank you.

    • Hello Chefette…thank you so much for the kind words and you will love the peanut butter cake 🙂 You are most definitely not alone..I think many of us were witchy/pagan before we knew what to label it or how to explain it..I know the same is true for me. I’m sure you’re a nut in the best sense of the word of being a fun, energetic, happy person 🙂 I’m a nut too!!
      Blessings and light, Autumn

  3. Moondancer

    Lovely … Blessed Samhain my friend … : ) ❤

  4. Angelique Autumn

    What an enchanting evening you had! Thank you so much for sharing your life! Hugs and blessings!

  5. irish claddagh

    Standing ovation…applause, applause, applause…this is amazing…everything from the gorgeous table setting, to the recap of your family filled Samhain celebration, the yummy recipe, to your simple yet powerful ritual …as always I look forward to your blogs, I learn so much, I get inspired and I feel it adds to my growth as a spiritual person and I am forever thankful….I LOVE IT!!! hope this new year gives you lots of love & light )O(

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